Don't think victimisation or rejection. For as a man thinks so he is. We are exactly the way we think. If you think negative things you draw them to your self. Our thoughts are like magnets that attract to us whatever we preoccupy our minds with. That is why the word of Godd is given to us to change the way we think so that we can begin to see positive things happening to us instead of the negative things.
Our words are not mere sounds, they are seeds. Keep sowing the seed of the Word of prophecy to yourself every day. Declare this prophecy over your life and pray its manifestation in a personalised way.
Walk in love towards your neighbour and avoid strife. Work at living in peace with everyone, and work at living a holy life, for those who are not holy will not see the Lord. Heb 12:14